Yes, it’s been a few days since I’ve blogged last, and surely you are all wondering just what the Gardener’s been up to, how the Nest is coming along and was anything of note done to celebrate the final days of Summer 2008.
Actually, I had just planned on a quiet weekend of painting and time in nature, but it turned out to be a much more interesting and exciting weekend than that, as Badum and I ended up hosting our first weekend guest!
In commiserating with a fellow blogger about our recent respective malaises (is that the plural?), I had touted the creative process as a helpful means to distraction…and painting as the sort of process you could do while spending time sorting through your thoughts…and I extended a sort of Tom Sawyer-like invitation to come help paint the apartment this weekend.
But I must admit, it was still a delightful surprise when Patrick called to say he was interested in coming to help paint if I’d been quite serious (perhaps he’s realizing that I am rarely all-the-way serious about many things…there’s little fun in seriousness, after all) about the invite. Which is how we ended up finally meeting at the bus station in Hyannis late Friday night!
The whole blogging experience (or at least ours) has put us in touch with such a great circle of people, where at least the frameworks for real friendships have been somewhat intensively forged online, and of course, that whole cyber world creates this sense of “imaginary” friends, and you never truly know how you’ll respond to someone when you meet them for real.
I’m happy to say Patrick and I seemed to step across the gap between worlds with a hug and a smile…and we quickly moved on to proving that old John Lennon saw about how what people really want to do is sit in rooms and talk…although we proved they also want to do it (the talking, People; heads out of the gutter, please…you cheapen us all with your tawdry little imaginings…) in cars, during inauspicious late-night dinners in Wendy’s parking lots…and while walking through marshes…or standing in the cool waters of Cape Cod Bay…or sitting in the sun on the deck with coffee and Cheerios…and yes, even while painting…we did get around to a little bit of that, too.
But we did speak of each one of you. Some more than others, naturally, and almost entirely good things. But I wouldn’t be surprised to hear that any one of you spent at least some little piece of the weekend going, “hey, what’s that I feel in the Universe…something‘s going on…why are my ears ringing…?” Yah, that was us. We talked about the Secret Wisdom of Bachelor’s Buttons, too.
Look at the color of the dining room: it’s called Amsonia Peach, which I chose as my orange component of the rainbow painting scheme for the Nest. It’s amazing in the way it changes so totally as the light does. One moment, it’s pumpkin pie orange, another moment cinnamon brown or here, with a blush of gold and pink, just like the skin of a peach.
The light changes a lot in this room during the course of a day, so it should be fun to watch as this color transforms right along with it. And also, some of the late day light comes in bounced off the now-pink, but soon to be brick red walls of the kitchen…so it will be interesting to see just how that changes things, too.
It really was a fun weekend. It was nice to have a kindred spirit to talk with about so many things on each of our minds. While neither of us saw this as one of those transformative, “How Someone Got Their Groove Back” weekends, in the process we may have at least realized that we each should actually have grooves, anyway…being fabulous gay guys and all.
And hosting a guest on Cape Cod always carries the additional pleasure of making one slow down and appreciate the incredible beauty around us.
With the recent frenzy of life, I’ve done little more than drive to local beach parking lots lately, to hurry up and soak in the sunset and snap a few photos before dashing home to rearrange some furniture or paint something.
What a joy it was to slow down and walk through the marsh with someone, laughing out loud (but not LOLing, for gosh sakes…) and talking about it or just soaking it in…and then actually walking out into the bay as the tide began to lap in around us, blue herons and hundreds of other birds flying about overhead, foraging in the shallow waters for their dinner as we snapped photos.
The late season songs of the crickets sounding a little sad, but sweetly so, from the marsh grass. complemented by the plaintive and ungraceful blat of the great blue heron as it soars across the bay waters, the honk of a fast-moving duck overhead, the lapping of the water around our ankles. The mystery of what the small unseen creatures were who occasionally dimpled the calm surface of the water from below and the way the color of the sky changes so gracefully as the sunlight vanishes and the stars appear overhead….it was all quite soothing and wonderful.
It was good to have the birds’ foraging as a reminder for us, as we are neither of us apparently clock-watchers, especially not with all the nature and talking and quiet to enjoy…but it wasn’t too long after that we discovered that the Gardener’s Nest is indeed within delivery range for a Papa Gino’s pizza.
Not watching the clock while chatting is also how we missed the earlier opportunity to get Patrick on a bus back to NY Sunday…and it was as we dashed for the car and the bus station a little while later that we remembered we’d not done a proper snapshot to prove we’d met…and so here’s that.
If you get the opportunity to meet Patrick, I highly recommend it. He’s fun and smart and thoughtful and all that you imagine he might be…and a little more, too. P, thanks for your company this weekend, it was really great fun. I hope we’ll do it again sometime soon (there’s more painting to do, after all).
Now on a technical note, I’m excited about having met Patrick for another reason: as a blogger, I can now be validated, at least to a small circle of other bloggers Patrick has met (and more distantly, through all the bloggers they have met), and am proven to be a real person more or less as represented in Blogland (perhaps a touch more neurotic…).
Pinnochio voice: So, look at me, everybody, I’m a real boy!
I stopped into work on the way home from the bus station, which is how I learned that Danny and Sara were still in town at the end of their week’s vacation and they invited me to join them for the summer’s last sunset…which you can see above.
Though I expressed to Dan the interest his internet fan base had in a further photo shoot in the outdoor shower, I’m afraid we never got around to that this time. ; )
We were really too busy just chilling out as the last gorgeous moments of summer slid down behind the horizon.
And it was really no surprise to me at all that the sun turned a lovely shade of violet as it vanished.